NATURE VS. NURTURE (Not your mother's version)

I had a long talk today with my friend K today.
I can talk to this person about anything.
We have been friends for 29 years.
Eventually I even admit everything.
The conversation somehow turned to sex.
Not a "how many" kind of talk, but a mature kind of talk.
In the time we were together this morning, I learned a lot.
About myself.
I really would like people to comment on this even if you go anonymous.

I had never really thought about it in these terms before.
As we all know, there is a difference between emotional and physical attraction.
Sometimes we are blessed with both in the same person.
Sex can be touchy though.
I know there are going to be the people out there who say the only great sex is with someone you love.
I get that too.
But for the sake of this conversation, forget those people.
Not that they're wrong or delusional... but anyway.
All I'm saying is that sometimes the best physical sex you have ever had, may not be with the same individual with whom you had the greatest emotional sex.
Emotional sex is wonderful, don't get me wrong.
That is where the nurture part takes over.
The feeling of being touched and caressed and just emotionally connected.
In love, utterly and hopelessly.
It's a wonderful feeling

But sometimes, Sometimes...............
Nature takes over.
Just the physical act of the sex.
The act itself.
Not for the purpose of being loved, or cherished.
Just for being wanted and desired, and not in a lovey romantic kind of way.
Excuse me for saying this, but in a "just plain fucking" sex sort of way.
Simply for the pure animal magnetism between two people.
The rip your clothes off, kitchen table kind of sex.

So, I was wondering where everyone's school of thought lies.

Are you a emotional sex kind of person?
Is the best sex of your life with the person you have the strongest emotional attachment with?

Or am I just completely insane and hormonal?

Just asking!